

Cash: Let me start out by saying: Cash isn’t sexy. However, working with clients and prospects over the last 6 months, I’ve noticed that even people with strong income and solid investment portfolios often have one surprisingly messy part of their financial life. Their cash.
It usually shows up in one of two ways:
Here’s the 3-part framework I use with clients:
The goal here isn’t to squeeze every basis point. It’s to design a cash system that keeps life easy, reduces stress, and helps you stop leaving money on the table.
Living in the Moment: One of the most powerful things about kids is how aggressively they drag you into the moment. I can be standing outside on a beautiful day and still be mentally 6 months ahead, making a list, running scenarios, worrying about something that has not happened yet.
My (nearly) 3 year old does not think past the present. If he finds a stick, it is not just a stick. It is the best stick in the history of sticks. If we see a garbage truck, it is not a garbage truck. It is the event of the week. Everything he does is the most exciting thing, and he is all in. No hedging. No multitasking. No mental calendar invite running in the background.
And honestly, I'm jealous.
Because my default setting is planning. I love thinking ahead. I love building systems. I love solving future problems before they show up at the door. That tendency has helped me in a lot of ways, but it comes with a cost. When you live in the future, you miss the present, even if the present is objectively great. You can be sitting at dinner with your family and still be mentally drafting an email you will send tomorrow.
Kids are a forcing function. If you are distracted, they feel it. If you are present, they reward you with their full presence too.
I am trying to take the hint. I do not want Henry to grow up with a Dad who was always physically there but mentally elsewhere. More importantly, I do not want to live a life where I only enjoy things once they are in the rear view mirror.

Good Ole Fashioned Earpods: I live and die by my over-ear Bose headphones. But, I’ve officially retired the Bose headphones for work calls. They were great until I caught my reflection one day and realized I looked like a 2007 DJ. I’ve since switched to the classic wired earpods. No, not airpods. I'm talking about the ones Apple is trying to quietly pretend don’t exist anymore.
And let me tell you, they just work. No Bluetooth pairing issues. No battery life to manage. I plug them in, hop on a Zoom, and sound perfectly fine. Best of all, I no longer look like I’m preparing for liftoff.
If you’re someone constantly on video calls, give the humble wired earpods another shot. Sometimes the simplest tech is still the best.
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